So what have we been up to in the months (years) since my last post? Well, as if life wasn’t chaotic enough between work, new business, kids, etc. we decided to tackle a pipedream goal of ours: restoring an old home.
When we started talking about restoring an old home we had a few criterion that we were both aligned on:
- The house needed to be old. We were willing to go as “new” as 1940’s but even that “young” was a bit of a stretch for me.
- We wanted land. Our preference was for at least 2 acres. I have dreams of someday owning chickens and a bee hive.
- Away from the hustle and bustle. Not that there’s anything wrong with big city life – heck Mike and I both grew up just outside of Los Angeles – we were just looking for something with a slightly slower, more relaxed vibe.
- Character, character, character. If we were going to pursue this madness, whatever house we were going to purchase had to be something that “spoke” to both of us. We needed a place that oozed historic charm.
- The house needed to be loved. We weren’t looking for a turn-key house, we had our eyes set on a restoration/renovation project – something that would keep us busy and give us a creative outlet.
- Budget fit. Because lets be honest, this is a must for any property purchase.
I would be lying if I said the search was easy. I found several houses online that appeared to meet all of our check boxes only to find out that something wasn’t quite right about each one. Additionally, as half of the United States can attest, the housing market in 2022 was absolutely bonkers and the few houses that Mike and I did like enough to truly consider either sold before we were able to put in an offer or ended up selling for far more than asking price.
Before we found “the one,” we had two houses that I completely had my heart set on. The first was a huge foursquare house that sat uninhabited for nearly 40 years, but had incredible hardwood floors throughout, original wavy glass windows, and a basement that looked like a New York City loft. We lost out on that one by a measly $5 thousand dollars and I think it will forever chap my hide. The second was a secluded stone cottage at the top of a private hill at the end of a winding private drive, surrounded by 9 acres of pristine woodland. This house went under contract the day we went to go see it.
I was beginning to lose hope on finding our project house. I stopped the search for a few months and begrudged the people who purchased these two houses. But one day on a whim I decided to type in our search criteria and to my excitement there was a small stone cottage that seemed to fit most of our wants. The catch – there were only 2 photos of the inside of the house and it was being sold via an online auction.
I showed it to Mike and we immediately made an appointment to see it that very day – having learned our lesson on waiting too long when something came up. We drove out to see the house, a mere hour away from our home. From the outside we could tell that there was definitely something special about this home, but the true test would be how it felt on the inside. Waiting for our agent to open the lockbox felt like torture to me as I was about to burst with excitement. She opened the door and we were immediately hit with the most disgusting smell of stale old house and dog urine. Mike gave me a panicked look.
We went inside. We made our way through the two front living rooms – one with peach carpet and the other with lime green carpet – then to the disproportionately large hallway, and through 2 very small bedrooms. Our tour of the house concluded with the kitchen that had not been updated since the 1950’s and a bathroom that was literally hanging off the rear of the house on what had once been an enclosed porch. As we went deeper into the house, I became more and more sure that this was the one, Mike on the other hand, not so much…
Mike was shaking his head no and looking at me like I had lost my mind for even considering the house. “I think this is a bit much” he said. My heart broke. Where he saw nothing but problems left and right, I saw an opportunity to restore this neglected house into a home. Our agent waited outside for most of the tour – the smell was that bad…
We drove home and talked it over. The more we went through the list of things that needed to be done to the house, the more I could tell Mike was warming up to the idea of it. We made a list of everything that needed to be done, I started sketching out interior floor plan arrangements, and we started making a budget of what we thought everything would cost. Since we only had a few days to decide whether or not to put an offer in, we debated the house constantly. Finally, Mike said “Let’s put in an offer – if we get it, we get it, and if we don’t at least we tried.”
The day of the auction closeout was extremely intense. A few last minute offers came in and to my surprise, Mike kept telling me to offer a little higher! In the end, we were the winning bidder and we had officially purchased a new, albeit a very stinky home – all online. We had the keys to our new property less than a month later!

We’ve affectionately dubbed our new house the “Craftsman Cottage.” The house was built in 1923 and has the date 7/4/23 embossed on the side of the front porch. The property is just over 2/3 of an acre which is not as much land as we would have liked – however there is an empty 3 acres of undisturbed land adjacent to us, and protected land across the street owned by the local water company.
The entire foundation and the front pillars of our cottage are built of quartz boulders that were locally sourced. Fun fact – there are no quartz quarries in North Carolina so all of the stone for our house was locally sourced. We learned this when we visited a local stone mart looking for more of the quartz (or at least a close duplicate) for some future projects we are looking to do.
Amazingly one of the best features of our new house was the 93 year old neighbor who came with it – Dempsey. We met Dempsey on our very first visit to the cottage with our real estate agent and briefly chatted with him about the home – turns out his parents had actually owned the house and he grew up in it. Originally the home had no running water or even a well – there was a long water hose that pumped water up from the property behind the house. The house was plumbed with one bathroom and a kitchen sink in 1957!
Dempsey – a potential future blog post himself – moved back to his hometown in the late 1970’s to help take care of his aging parents and built a home right next door to his family. His parents lived in the house until their passing and they left it to his younger brother. His younger brother eventually sold the house to a woman who eventually leased it to her niece/nephew and at some point the house fell into severe disrepair and eventually foreclosure. Dempsey was thrilled to have new neighbors up to the task of getting the house back to its original glory.

So, over the past year or so, we have been doing just that – trying to get the house back from the brink of destruction. It’s been a lot of hard work and some days have been incredibly frustrating. We’ve encountered wasps, spiders, lizards, birds and swarms of lady bugs – all inside the house. We’ve found more termite damage than either of us had ever seen and Mike actually fell through the floor at one point due to the extent of the damage. We’ve taken countless trips to the dump with building debris and trash that was callously thrown about the property. We’ve shivered in the cold and cursed the summer heat and we’ve both used the bathroom in the woods more times than I’d care to remember – all in the pursuit of bringing this little cozy cottage back to life.
A year in and we have done all of the following:
- Removed all of the interior walls which were covered with drywall (by Dempsey). Behind the drywall we found solid wood beadboard everywhere. We salvaged as much of the unpainted beadboard as we could with the hopes of repurposing it.
- We reframed the entire interior. Instead of having 2 living rooms in such a small house we decided to make one of the living rooms an office/guest room space to go along with a dining room, two other bedrooms, 2 bathrooms, a laundry room, and a smaller more efficient kitchen than what the house previously had.
- We removed 2 non-functional fireplaces that had failing brick (one from the living room that is becoming an office and the other from the kitchen). The bricks were so damaged they literally crumbled into dust in our hands. The kids REALLY enjoyed demo-ing the fireplaces. Fortunately for us, the house has a third stone fireplace in remaining living room that we plan to make the focal point of the room.
- We completely rebuilt the entire back of the house. The rear of the house had once been a rear porch that was enclosed in the 1950’s to make a bathroom and a laundry room. It had a shed roof and due to the previous life as a porch, the floor had a steep slant away from the house. We reframed everything from the joists to the rafters, complete with a new pitched roof to match the rest of the house.
- We’ve run new electrical lines to the entire house and moved the old circuit breaker box from the front of the house to the room that will eventually become our laundry room at the rear of the house.
- The subfloor in the first half of the house had to be completely removed, joists replaced, and refloored for structural integrity.
- We’ve got the house’s well back up and running, and added new plumbing runs to the house to supply not only the kitchen, laundry and bathroom, but an entire second bathroom that will be off the main bedroom. Considering this house once relied on an outhouse, I’d say that’s a huge upgrade!
- We’ve started the very long process of scraping 100 year old paint off the side of the house and repainting the siding and trim. Amazingly, every lead test performed on the old paint indicated NO LEAD, but we have been taking precautions nonetheless as if it were lead based paint. As painting is often a one woman show – and only happens on days where the weather is cooperating – we have three quarters of the original wood siding and trim done, but soffits and eaves around the whole house still to go.
- We’ve learned the art of reglazing old glass windows and to date we have restored 6 of the home’s original windows – wavy glass and all. We still have quite a few windows to reglaze and a few of the windows have cracked glass panes which will need to be replaced.
- We’ve installed 2 concealed duct mini split air conditioners with heat pumps in the attic. Hopefully the cold winters and sweltering summers will soon be an outside only experience. We also completely insulated the walls, floors and ceilings.
- We’ve reinstalled the salvaged beadboard on the ceilings of all three bedrooms and we completely love the warmth it brings to each room.
In all we’re pretty happy with our progress thus far on our cottage. Foolishly Mike and I both thought we’d be further along by now, but we are still moving in the right direction. In a few weeks the house is getting a new roof and shortly thereafter we’ll be ready for our initial round of inspections. I cannot tell you how much we are looking forward to installing drywall, flooring and real plumbing fixtures.















































